1. Quit Looking for Perfect!

    We are so concerned with getting things right or perfect that we spend far too much time analyzing and gathering data, information and sometimes our courage. It’s easy to dismiss our lack of action because we are still researching the best or perfect way to do something. We find a video or article…Read More

  2. Accountability and Forgiveness

    There are all sorts of buzzwords going around as people look to recreate themselves for the new year. To me these two words are extremely important and while they seem to be opposite forces, I believe whole heartedly that for either to be truly effective they need one another. We need to be accounta…Read More

  3. Happiness

    It is one of the most misunderstood and elusive words in our language. It is unique to each of us and can be different from moment to moment.  Many of us look at happiness as a random act that just happens sometimes and does not at others.  I believe happiness is a choice, an intentional frame of …Read More

  4. Watch What I Do Not What I Say

    As we started this blog and vlog series to document our changes and to share our story, I was honored by the following it created. I have always had a strong aversion to those who give advice, tell people what they should be doing, but either don’t follow it themselves or have never done what they…Read More

  5. Going Through the Motions

    Look at the people in your lives that you spend the most time with.   Are they getting the best you have to offer?  Are you helping them become better?  Are you honest with them? I’m shocked at times with how dishonest we have become in many of our closest relationships. We start going through …Read More

  6. Thankfulness

    Since it’s Thanksgiving week I wanted to share a quick thought on being thankful. It’s easy for us to be thankful when things go well and you get what you desired. But let’s try being thankful for the times things are difficult, when it seems the world is aligned against us and when we begin t…Read More

  7. Live Out Loud

    I love the comments, messages and conversations I have with all of you about sharing wisdom, experiences and perspectives.  I’m honored to know you value the writing, the videos and the conversations, but I must be honest with you all.  I’m not that wise, smart or more knowledgeable than the n…Read More

  8. Don’t Ask Permission to Be GREAT

    I don’t feel embarrassed by the fact I want to be GREAT in life.  I want to be able to spoil my wife, have new experiences with my family and to see the world.  I want to do things that make my mom proud, make a difference to others, impact lives and be remembered when I’m gone.   Guess what…Read More

  9. Appreciate the Journey

    This week there has been a lot of talk about the lottery and how everyone wants to win this huge jackpot.  It seems like a great idea win all this money live your dream life.  Why then do we see reports that 70% of lottery winners end up bankrupt and so many more report general unhappiness? There …Read More

  10. Embrace Your Fear!

    Many of you responded and reacted to our question last week about fear and what it is keeping you from accomplishing in your lives.  I read of the many activities you would try, different careers you would like to have, places of the world you want to see and classes you would take, if only you wer…Read More