It pains me to see people who have allowed their past to define who they are today.  Their self-identity has become stuck on who they were, not who they wanted to become.  We have all made mistakes, done things we are not proud of and regret some of our past choices, but we don’t have to constantly remind ourselves of them.  Those moments in your life are designed to teach you lessons, get you to improve and create growth.  Accept your faults, flaws and imperfections, forgive yourself and work towards becoming who you always wanted to be!